Monday, March 17, 2008

The Art of Letting Go

When do you really let go? When do you really say it’s over?

The art of letting go is not really hard to master. It’s like losing something valuable to us everyday – a good quality pen, a badly spent hour, or a missed chance. All of us have, one way or another, experienced the hardships involved in letting someone or something go. It’s especially difficult when you are letting go of an intimate relationship.

It hurts so much to lose someone much more a relationship. You’ll start criticizing and blaming yourself for the fall off. It’s inevitable. But the more you dwell on a broken relationship, the more you are headed to a deeper problem and the more you get bitter. Often, it is better to slip away and spend some time finding peace, happiness and contentment. It’s better to surround yourself with love than anger and pity. Anger and hatred is a hitch that keeps us tied to the past. So do yourself a favor, drop the hitches. Shake it off and step up.

With love around you, you are headed to understanding yourself and resolving the bitterness and pain that dwells in your feelings. Feel and live the essence of your life. In the end, you’ll see and realize that you have finally let go. You have finally mastered the art of letting go.

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